What Is The Best Way To Get A Woman Back

Few things in life suck as much as losing someone you love.  It's very hard to deal with and many people will do just about anything to find out the best way to  get a woman back.  If you want to get back with your ex, don't give up. It is possible and I'll show you how.

In order to get back with your ex you're going to need to think outside the box.  When most people are trying to get back with their ex they almost always do the wrong things. 

That is why listening to your friends might be the worst thing you can do because chances are they'll tell you to do the exact opposite of what you should really be doing. 

Here is a list of some Do's and Don'ts.  Follow this list and you will have a much better chance of getting back with your ex. 

DON'T S

1) Harass, badger, nag, or threaten.  No one likes to be pushed.  Don't chase after her.  She already gets the fact that you still care and you want her back, now it's time to back off a little bit and give her some space.  

2) Lock yourself in your house and never go out.  This is what many people do.  They go to work but other than that they just hide in a dark room.  

3) Hookup with someone else.  Not only is this a good way to lose your girlfriend for good, it's also unfair to the new woman.  You would just be using her to get over your hurt.  


DO'S

1) Give your woman some space.  Give her time to miss you.  She can't remember you fondly and miss you if you are constantly in her face.  This can be very difficult to do but it's one of the most important things to remember if you want her back. 

2)  Go out with your friends.  Try to have fun.  It will be hard, but it's very important not only for your mental health but also so that your ex will start to see you, again, as a fun loving person.  The way she saw you when you first got together. 

3) Be honest about whether or not the relationship is worth saving.  Not all relationships should be saved.  Also be willing to honestly admit whatever part you had in the relationship falling apart and be willing to make some changes to your behavior. 

Follow the steps I've listed above and you'll be much more likely to get a woman back.

Get Back Your Love In 3 Easy Steps

OK you're broken up because you've lost the love of your life and now you want them back.  But is it possible to get back your love?  If so, then how?  Let me show you...

I know it's a cliche, but it's true: breaking up is hard to do.  That's why people almost always do the wrong thing when they are going through a breakup.  They are hurt, angry and scared and they just react.  And that is where the trouble starts.

If you want to get back with your love you need to follow a few simple tips.  Following these tips won't always be easy but you'll have a much better chance of getting back together with your ex then you would if you don't follow them. 

1) Don't suffocate them.  Even though it's tough to keep your distance that is exactly what you have to do. Even when you want to scream at them that  they are  being stupid and they're throwing away a wonderful relationship you need to hold that in. 

You need to give your ex time to miss you. If you make them angry by pursuing them relentlessly you will lose them forever.  And this is exactly what most people do. 

2) Don't spend too much time worrying about them, concentrate on you.  Now would be a great time for you to take stock of you.  Decide what traits you have that might have contributed to the relationship falling apart and try to fix them. 

Remember, you aren't fixing them to get your ex back, you are fixing them because they need to be fixed and  you want to be the best person you can be. 

No matter what happens with your ex, whether you get back together with them or not, if you take this important step now you will grow as a person and that can only make your future relationships much better. 

3)  At some point the two of you will need to talk.  Don't do this right away even though that's what you'll want to do.  You both need time to let things settle down otherwise any conversation you have is likely to end up with crying, or screaming, or both.

Once a little time has gone by you both can realize that you miss each other and hopefully have an honest conversation about what each of you is feeling and where you'd like to go from that point on. 

Just remember this isn't about proving that you're right and they're wrong.  It's about trying to honestly evaluate and understand each other's point of view.  That is the only way you can build a solid relationship.

Following these 3 seemingly simple steps can really help you  get back your love.  It's not going to be easy but it's the only way to reconcile and build something strong for the future.